stone

sharn n shawn 2011

2011-03-09T05:38:00.000-08:00

heaven sent me an angel for my 39th birthday, thank u!

we went for movie at tampines mall on 5 march 2011 - just go with it

had coffee at starbucks n dinner at ajisen

then walk me home

we met up on 8 march 2011 tue again he pick me up then we went holland V for sushiteh then starbucks cosy till 10+ he went home instead of book in, we had a good nite.

looking forward to our next date on 11 march at 00 again!!

hans n me for his 12th birthday

2011-03-01T06:10:00.000-08:00

old skool

2009-06-16T00:42:00.001-07:00

thanks to facebook i found some more old classmates

namely zizi maureen tahaireen monaliza trissie vanz

happy to be chatting with them on the pictures, so nostalgic

check it out at my facebook profile sharonspoon@yahoo.com

lunch

2009-04-28T22:59:00.000-07:00

long time no blog

had a lousy lunch today

suppose to go eat kuay chap at tampines, then the stall was closed, so end up eating some lousy nasi lemak w beehoon

in the end lau bought me kfc, enjoying the whipped potato and coleslaw now :D

star awards 2009

2009-04-28T22:53:00.000-07:00

happy with the star awards results.
something for a change
and i agree w Life comments about pierre and 715 should not even be nominated, though Zzen acted well.
wasted lin mei jiao and eelyn didnt get the award, they are good too

Stone's 37th Birthday 2009

2009-03-26T07:17:00.000-07:00

Lunar bday eve with Gaylen, bought me a teddy and mug.

Had Korean dinner with Roy, then Ocat.

Then Friday party at DF with colleagues and friends.

2nd round at Rupee room clarke quay.

Saturday Aunt Anna had a hotel room to celebrate for me, small party with mum, aunts, godparents, cousin and bro n fam.

Dinner with Peter 25th March.

On leave on actual day spend w hans n mum, went for movie "12 rounds". Came home for dinner n cut mini cake w mum n son.

Had a wonderful birthday, not forgetting lots of Facebook wishes + SMSs

Good Jokes

2009-02-05T18:26:00.001-08:00

Question: Why is sperm donation more expensive rather than
blood donation?
Answer: Because it's HANDMADE!!
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Man No 1 : "My wife is obsessed with cars. While asleep, she
holds my dick & said 'first gear, 2nd gear..."
Man No 2 : "My wife is worse! She puts my dick inside her &
said "Full tank please."
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Question : What is the closest thing that is similar to a woman's
period?
Answer : Your SALARY!
It comes once a month, lasts about 5-7 days & if it doesn't come,
you're in big trouble!
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A woman gave birth to 6 babies. On seeing this, she got off the
hospital bed, slapped her husband & shouted, "I told you not to
do it doggy style!"
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A prostitute goes to deposit a $100 bill in a bank.
The teller says, "Sorry, madam, this note is a fake."
"Oh no!" exclaimed the prostitute, "I have been RAPED!"
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"Your secretary publicly said you have a small dick, what would
you comment on this?"
"The truth is = she has a big mouth!"
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A Japanese girl accidentally lets out a big fart after making love.
She said, "Aww, so sorry... excuse me pleazo, Front hole is so
happy that my back hole laugh out loud!"
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Love is a complicated machinery. But sometimes all you need is a
good screw to fix it.
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What's the difference between biology and sociology?
When the baby looks like his mom or dad = it's biology. When he
looks like the neighbour,= it is sociology.
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What do u call the useless piece of flesh attached to the dick ? =
The MAN.
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Whoever first said "A dog is man's best friend" = he must have
never seen a pussy before.....
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Why is breast milk good for health?
Because it is great for blood circulation, provides heat, is refreshing
and comes in attractive containers.
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Why was the two-piece bikini invented?
To separate the meat section from the dairy section.
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A mother was scolding the daughter, "I don't like the guy you are going out with. He is too dumb."
"No, Mama," she said, "He is going to be a doctor. See, he has already cured me of that illness that I used to have every month!"

Happiness

2009-02-05T17:50:00.000-08:00

One day, the young lion asked his mom: "Mom, where is the happiness?"
Mom replied: "It's on your tail."
So the young lion keeps on chasing after his tail. But after a whole day of trying, he failed to get the happiness that was on his tail.
Then he told his mom about this, his mom smiled and said: "Son, you don't really need to chase after your happiness, as long as you keep going and moving forward, your happiness will always be with you."
Wish everyone of you find your happiness.

Please do forward to all your friends and wish the happiness is with them always.
You can't decide the length of life, but you can control how you want to live it.
You can't control the weather, but you can control your mood.
You can't change your look, but you can smile.
You can't control others, but you can control yourself.
You can't foresee tomorrow, but you can utilize today wisely.
You can't win everything, but you can try your very best to achieve that.
Hope everyone can face the daily life positively and always happy...

让爱固定下来　我和你　不要不要分开

2009-01-07T00:31:00.001-08:00

在镜子前面　我是个被爱的女人
他站在门外　这个周末我可以依赖在他的胸怀
在情人面前　我还是单身的女人
爱若缺了缘份
我想我只能用情至深但不能太认真
为什么被爱　有时却觉得悲哀
为什么我还是害怕一个人醒来
为什么相爱　日子却依然空白
为什么你　走不到我的未来
让爱固定下来　我不会永远青春可爱
我的美丽要你的温柔帮我保留下来
让爱固定下来　我和你　不要不要分开
我不要爱一再一再彩排
* 我不是每次失恋后都能从新再来 *
为什么被爱　有时却觉得悲哀
为什么我还是害怕一个人醒来
为什么相爱　日子却依然空白
为什么你　走不到我的未来
让爱固定下来　我不会永远青春可爱
我的美丽要你的温柔帮我保留下来
让爱固定下来　我和你　不要不要分开
我不要爱一再一再彩排
我不是每次失恋后都能从新再来
我不是每次失恋后都能从新再来

actual 2nd date

2009-01-06T23:04:00.000-08:00

actually our 2nd date was at BLISS on 12 Dec, after my company's xmas party, we met there, had a drink, chat alot, walk at the park, so ROMANTIC, had not done it before.

alot of first time with him, very happy night.

he is a very good lover

meaningful quotes

2009-01-06T23:02:00.001-08:00

1) Never make someone a priority when you are only an option

2) without love, there's no pain..without pain, there's no love - 12 lotus movie

3) i've learnt that you cant make sum1 happy unless u r happy urself., I've learnt tat if u hv uncertainty abt ur life, its very hard to offer sum1 else tat certainty.

all very sad but true words of wisdom

Starting of the year 2009

2009-01-04T07:22:00.000-08:00

countdown to 2009 at df with hk and friends, wendy, jacky, derek, wilson etc etc

was home around 2am after his place

woke up on 1st jan 2009 very late, had bak chor mee for dinner w fam

2nd jan still resting, didnt club, he went df, we cant meet cos i cant get out of home

3rd jan saturday morning i went over to have kfc lunch w angel, he went to work, i went to temple, manicure & pedicure, bought 4 skirts at this fashion, then went gathering w bryan and gang at changi village hotel

as wished he called me at around 12+midnite then i went over, dehua bro send me there. slept at 3am+ and woke up 10+ he went to work, i went home to sleep again.

very happy, but its time to start work for 2009 so we didnt and cant meet tonite though we want to. he was home early but i cant go over.

tmr 5th jan is 1st day of work for 2009, wish that everything go well and smooth for 2009 work love fam life everything.

Fruitful 2008 December

2009-01-01T23:13:00.001-08:00

Touched by an angel

It started when i was hving insomnia mid nov, his sms was very caring n sweet though i had nothing w him then.

25th nov 2008 started the insomnia n sweet sms tats how we gradually started
2nd dec 2008 - invite me to east coast bbq
5th dec 2008 fri, join me at df after his work abt mid9, stayed w me till 5am n send me home, hans going sunway
6th dec 2008 sat, mich farewell
7th dec 2008 sun, ELVIN at bigsplash 8days carboot, Kg Bahru pub first official date,overnite
8th dec 2008 mon, he worked then msn
9th dec 2008 tue, hans back, he noe i miss hans
10th dec 2008 wed, day off
11th dec 2008 thu, he mc, swim then eat desert n library
12th dec 2008 fri, xmas party then he went BLISS to wait n meet me, we walk in the park till 3am then decided to follow him home hehe. love bite
14th dec 2008 sun, i went movie w hans. it was our 1st mth kiss anniversary
15th dec 2008 mon, wrote me a STONE poem so so sweet n touching - i found a stone, kept the stone next to my soul, stone is nice n hard to find, lose the stone lose my mind, stone is mine n always in my mind.
16th dec 2008 tue, drink at rest miss each other so much
17th dec 2008 wed, he pub hop w chef, zouk st james orchard
18th dec 2008 thu, I M I S S U sms, ELVINOLOGY 2008 gathering at sembawang park, didnt meet
19th dec 2008 fri, df then went over, he was drinking w aust back friend
20th dec 2008 sat, stone stone stone, he went out for fam dinner
23rd dec 2008 tues, my last working day for 2008, went out w colleagues and SG, he called me twice to chat and i went over at 1am
24th dec 2008 wed, left home w him tog he went to work, took bus, drew a heart for me
25th dec 2008 thu, i went marina barrage w fam, he was home early, we msn at nite
26th dec 2008 fri, went df then tamako w bran/xiaoxue then he pick me to his place
27th dec 2008 sat, he was off, we met at bugis eat shop play, got me a chipmunk and tshirt drink drank drunk
28th dec 2008 sun, was at bran & xiaoxue place, he worked till 4pm n run errands, went over at nite n stayed over
29th dec 2008 mon, left in the morning, he was off, new tv came, i went home.
30th dec 2008 tue, went for facial tog then beach cabana then home to watch 12 lotus
31st dec 2008 wed, countdown at df then went to give him a 2009 hug & kiss at midnite.

start of 2009...wonder how our relationship will tahan now that im starting work and not so much time to meet.

3rd date & 1st movie

2008-12-30T12:38:00.000-08:00

we met up at 6pm and went for facial together.

thereafter brought him to my fav Beach Cabana at east coast. we shared a jug of beer and each had a cabana chix chop

he bought some dvds so we proceeded home to watch it together, its the 12 lotus movie.

i went home at 1am.

it was another sweet n nice date.

he came all the way to the east to meet me cos he noes i start work next week and will not hv the luxury to meet up w each other so often anymore.

im wearing the drink drank drunk tshirt chef bought for me tonite, very sexy ! hehe!

hope our relationship will lasts.....

2nd date 27th dec 2008

2008-12-29T10:33:00.000-08:00

we had our 2nd date on 27th dec 2008 at bugis

i left his home at 10am then nap till 2+

met up w him 4.30 at bugis, the weather was freaking dry n hot, the place was superly crowded, both of us were still hving mild hangover, thus the initial feeling was horrible, made us both tired n lethargic

tried to find a nice place to eat n drink but walk a few places before ending up at lerk thai

but i guess we were too hungry or tired so not much appetite though ordered alot of food

anyway after the food we went to bugis junction, things got better after the aircon effect. we walk around the carts window shopping.

then he brought me to arcade to "catch" me a toy, it was a chipmunk xmas toy, so super cute. so happy n touched

then we proceed to bugis village , he bought me a "drink drank drunk' tshirt, so sweet of him.

we proceeded to simlim he wanted to buy a mouse n mouse pad, he chose, i bought it for him as a prezzie as i had not gotten him any xmas gift at all.

then we went for light dinner, both of us shared a plate of seafood fried e-mee, so nice.

thereafter proceeded home individually, it was already 10pm, he had work at 8am next day.

he should be very tired but it was a very fruitful happy fabulous day with him.

GM's birthday 2008

2008-12-29T10:11:00.001-08:00

celebrated at home with a simple cake

phelix the cat birthday 2008

2008-12-29T10:07:00.000-08:00

home cook food by wife at their place in pasir ris

brother's 35th bday

SIL birthday 2008

2008-12-29T10:03:00.000-08:00

chalet at downtown east 28 oct.

Pixelmetrix Xmas party 2008

2008-12-29T01:43:00.001-08:00

At Miss U cafe 12 Dec 2008

elvinology 2008

2008-12-29T01:35:00.001-08:00

Recent gathering on 18 Dec at sembawang park.

angel

2008-12-29T01:25:00.000-08:00

Met this lovely person via Love Nov 14 at Movida
He joined me at DF on 6 Dec and stayed w me till 5am.
We had our first date at Kampong Bahru on 8th Dec.
And have been meeting regularly every friday and recently.
He is awesome.
Thank you for his love.

Spend a lovely christmas with him.

Yearly events

2008-12-01T22:57:00.001-08:00

2001 till now - Happily Divorced
2000 Divorce
1999 Hans born
1998 Hans created
1997 Customary Wedding
1996 ROM
1995 Apply Flat
1994 Dating
1993 Met an Idiot

1991-1992 - 10 Brothers
1989-1990 - Perfect Match

1985-1988 Telok Kurau Secondary
1979-1984 Jalan Eunos/Jalan Daud/Eunos Primary
1978 PAP Kindergarten
1973-1977 Childhood
1972 Born

Reunited after 17 years

2008-12-01T22:48:00.000-08:00

17 years ago while casually walking around, met a secondary schoolmate Eric, we recognise we were from the same school, he then invited me to his chalet, so since im free n single, i went.

Got along with him and his brothers, they are called the 10 brothers of TKSS.

For about two years, i went steady with one of them finally #3 for 1.5 years. Case closed, everyone disappeared after that.

After 17 years, Bryan #10 found me on Facebook, he reunited everyone and we met up again.

Pictures below is b4 and after 17 years.

http://sharonspoon.multiply.com/photos/album/54/Reunited_with_the_1991_TKSS_10_brothers_after_16_years

my estate

2008-09-12T01:51:00.001-07:00

when or if i die i hv the following plan / wish

of cos priority is hans, all my everything i hv will go to hans

i assume his gm will take care of him else will be ocat or my godma, he will be happier with them

if i hv lots of $, ok usual rule main sum for hans or at least enough for his education and livelihood

but if i hv enough and alot alot i would like to share w the following ppl who have a part in my life:

bro - 5k

jasper - 2k

gifford - 3k

charlie - 2k

mike - 5k

joe - 5k

cornelius - 3k

frank - 5k

Henna ong lay kheng

2008-09-12T01:48:00.000-07:00

and not forgetting my old best friend

i actually sort of forgot about her

though i know she exists

till i found an old diary telling me all about her

she was so close to me, we were so close n good friends

should be year 1993ish+ cos i joined mot in 1996 august

and not forgetting julia & maggie

TKSS sec best friend

2008-09-12T01:46:00.000-07:00

again found this very old pic

10 yrs old i guess

ivy and lionel

she was my neighbour

and classmate from sec 1 & 2

he was my classmate sec 3 & 4

he is also staying eunos but diff block

3 of us were prefect

nothing happened during school days

apparently they met n started after sec school, i tink met at mrt

they got married he he he

Folec days

2008-09-12T01:41:00.000-07:00

was springcleaning and found these awesome pix

1994-1996 folec communications

short but very sweet memories

ivy kong

ng wee tye

au yong MH

sim suan hee

oh tong nam

joseph lee

dean chua

ong beng teck

aihui

kokweng

linda

terence sim

hockchoon

lyechuan

laypeng

ken cheok

alex ng

chong min

chew kk

ah boy

st james party

2008-09-12T01:38:00.000-07:00

the usual fridays + colleagues from pixel, very happening nite

pixel colleague farewell at mos

2008-09-12T01:34:00.000-07:00

we went to mos but was so boring so brought them to barnone, not too bad

here are some pics for memory, it was Ivy Roxil's farewell

where should i start

2008-09-12T01:28:00.001-07:00

i forgot where i stop but i dun wan to read back what i hv written

so i shall juz say again

today quiet day very quiet wet n drowsy

but its FRIDAY

drinking time

past two days very angry tat idiot again stress me, complain abt hans academic result, now tuitioning hans almost daily to let him reach the average. ta ma de

im monitoring my hans if he cannot take it i will take action

of cos i want hans to do well

of cos i know he is kind to tuition hans

but he is only 9 yr old

sigh

but im not going to be kia si or kia su, i will monitor first see how it goes

mum had been quiet, when i look at her face i pity her but she really dun deserve the pity

tat day fought w old man n threaten divorce, now she juz keep mum as if nothing had happened

wat is tis, drama-ing always, SIAN , make up her mind la

when i see her sayang hans i appreciate n pity her

but when she goes cranky i hate her

gods help us please

give me directions

anyway not much drama on tv nowadays

watching chilwu mon/tue on 173

10-11pm is golden bride

9pm is repeat of the drive of life

8pm is some new hkg drama watchable but not exciting

boss is not in town this week

i went facial yesterday

had crab dinner w colleagues on wed at amk, not so good tis time, wonder is the crab or wat. the sauce still taste the same, meaning still nice but not memorable like wan to go back again feeling

wanted to get a laptop but now w hans tuition most of the time i got time to use the comp

dear god

2008-09-06T00:16:00.001-07:00

dearest all gods

please help me to help my mum to wake up

change her please

im getting all suffocated because of her

and due to her temperament, i cant leave a normal life

until she leaves the world or at least till my son is independent and understand.

else i will juz live this way

i will not degrade or wallow in self pity

i must jia you all for my own sake and my son.

my wish

2008-09-06T00:13:00.000-07:00

i wish my mum can really wake up

get out of her miserable life

stop being so "great" to keep the fam

but actually breaking it up instead

which is already broken anyway

leave her hus, sell the house if necessary

just the 3 of us, i dun mind putting up w her if she can accomplish all these

i tink tat will make up for wat she has done

take watever $ she has, juz take care of my hans, cook n wash for us, thats all im asking from her

she does not need to worry herself about my personal life

im living a good life.....the only not good part is putting up w her !!!!!!

NB !

broken fam

2008-09-06T00:10:00.000-07:00

yes i know i sld not marry in the first place

but i did not regret marrying or giving birth

cos these are phase of life, i hv to go thru it sooner or later

the only wrong thing is marry the wrong guy

but why , he has 5C or at least i tot can move him w my love

but sorry all wrong, when one doesnt love u means doesnt love u

only drama can happen but not real life

he look down on me, i cling on to him

anyway wats wrong cant be undone, but at least i chose my life and get out of it.

i may not be happier but at least not suffering under him anymore.

now is no support from my mum tat is making me hard to live on

but i hv to live on for my son's sake

i will love him till end of time, unconditionally

part two of fam story

2008-09-06T00:04:00.000-07:00

its a warm saturday noon

im relaxing n unwinding myself at home

but thinking back of those sad things i really must sit and write

im thankful for the person that invented blog

at least i can write out all my feel

she being weak and but she think she is great n have sacrificed herself, all these are wrong, instead all her "sacrificed" has sacrificed us all instead
- my dad
- me,
- brother

nobody is in my shoes so will and cannot understand how i feel
you may think tat yes she may be great etc etc
but u r not me, u dunoe how we suffered under her

she has stressed all of us out, everything we do must see her face n temperament

i have friends who have good and kind parents who listens and support the child instead of exerting pressure on them

and she claims this is love and all she did is cos she love us. PUI

she love herself more, she wants things to be in her way

she may think its love but no , her love has turned into torture

she is torturing all of us by being temperamental

yes i know there are worst parents around, but there are nice ones too

why cant she fall into the nice paretnts category

she thinks $ is everything

but i tink fam love support understanding is most important

i cannot do anyting to her else will be branded as ungrateful , unfilial

and god will punish me

so what can i do but just blog it out, keep in the heart, bear w her but treat her coldly cos i really hv no love for her, only pity

im a bitch ! but so wat, im happy ! hah

family story

2008-09-05T23:54:00.001-07:00

how did it become like that im not too sure but from my vague memory and assumption bits n pieces from hearsay is something like that

- she was born into a big fam, 3rd in line, thus hv to take care of younger siblings
- parents didnt love or treasure her
- she wanted to get married fast to get out of this "suffering"

- somehow met my dad, had me i guess after first sex
- i was conceived out of their lust
- they got married

- soon after i was born, my brother was born, we are only 1 year apart
- she stopped work to take care of us
- she tot tat was right and at tat era maybe tats it

up to today she keep saying either very great to do tat or stupid to do tat
but its her life her choice
she chose the simple way out

- things were fine initially
- dad gambled n lost, she had lots of $ thus help him but tats also how the fam broke up

instead of being there and be supportive i guess all she did was nag n drama at him till he dare not tell her anyting anymore

kept everyting to himself and trying to make more $ to shut her mouth up
but instead he lost more
and even lost us as her nagging make us hate him thinking he is a bad guy
i saw her hitting herself cos of him
so from young memory he is like a tyrant
but i guess is she self inflict those pain, DRAMA

if assuming she had chosen to stand by him instead then it would have been better

her pride is very strong , cannot lose face

and i guess the marriage is not base on love but lust then lucky he got some $ n lasted

Mother

2008-09-05T23:49:00.000-07:00

i dunoe why im sitting here

i dunoe why im writing this

im not suppose to be doing this

but i really must say it out

how should i say

i hate my mum

everyone will say im wrong to do that

but what to do i really hate her

she has caused our lives to be in this way because of her

she is a a very weak woman that drag everyone down w her

when she is sad she makes everyone sad too

she tortures us mentally

but on the surface she is the angel

by doing our housework, washing and cooking, to make up for her misdeeds

the only thing i can make myself stay here w her is cos she took care of my son 24/7

and he is attached to her, "grateful" to her but other than that she is not a good mother

she may be a good mother yes by cooking washing n housework and looking after my son but only that

she is dramatic, temperamental, eratic, cranky, emotional and her best weapon is CRY, cry n cry, if not attempt suicide so to make the whole world guilty.

and everyone will be branded to think that we caused her to be so.

but in actual fact she brought all these onto herself

and yet we cant do anyting abt it or her

if we try anyting she will tink negative and start dramaing before treatment can be done

SIGH SIGH SIGH

Expenditure

2008-08-19T20:37:00.000-07:00

My expenditure:

Facial monthly instalments 24 mths - $230

Mani/Pedi = $60

Computer - $100

Korea 2007 - $190

SCV internet - $120

PUB - $250

HP - $100

Insurance and savings - $300

Schoolbus - $75

Tuition - $50 each time

Excluding credit card and cash - bus fare, lunch, taxi, entertainment, clubbing, gifts

Living a good life

2008-08-19T20:35:00.000-07:00

I feel that im living a good life now

not tough at all

I have a job, happy here

I have my pamper sessions, facial , mani/pedi, massages

I have technology, mp3, computer, handphones, drama, tv, internet

I have a roof over my head

I have a lovely and loving son

I have a wonderful family, extended i mean. heehee

I destress by going for a drink aka clubbing, dancing

Balanced and Happy Life.

Getting attached

2008-08-19T20:26:00.000-07:00

After so many relationships and experience, i know roughly what I want and want to look out for and wat to beware of.

I would one someone to love me more than i love him, but of cos i must hv feel for him too

I would one someone to take care and be attentive to me

I want to be that little girl that is waiting to be loved.

Hope the day that im ready i will meet someone like that.

Wish me luck, till then.

"Its better to have loved than to never loved before"

Re-marry

2008-08-19T19:33:00.000-07:00

mum and me was watching a korean drama, tis divorcee met an old high school mate and he was very nice to her

she commented to me and said ask me to go find this kind of man then can remarry

i told her off

but i cant tell the truth

cos the truth is she is a so hard to please mum/person

she still has tis very old fashion thinking and its really hard to live w her

so its a no way for me to be attached or remarry as long as she is ALIVE

so i can only dream on n wait LONG LONG

plan now is wait till im 45, hans is 18, so abit independent n stable so i can lead my own private life.

no way will i bring another guy home as long as SHE is around

"my once upon a time did not end happily ever after" because of HER

Kiwi

2008-08-19T19:21:00.001-07:00

Vijay was so sweet again to buy me a souvenir from New Zealand. Its a little hairy kiwi. heehee

The last time he went to spain he bought me a spanish bull souvenir.

Nice of him.

My hobby

2008-08-18T20:43:00.000-07:00

my one and only hobby is clubbing - after working hard, i want to go for a drink, enjoy the music, and then dance the night away

not everyone can accept this hobby but i dun care

but the problem with this hobby is that it is very expensive. :(

anyways i will continue doing it till i cannot afford it some day....so choi choi choi..

a rainy night

2008-08-18T20:39:00.000-07:00

i was caught in the rain yesterday evening but lucky i had a buddy to walk with me to the bus stop

it was kind of romantic, lol, we have not walk to the bustop together for a long time due to work constraints

he is my bustop mate, but heard a sad news from him, he is leaving the company come end sept.

so that walk last nite was memorable, emotional, the rain was heavy, very heavy, both of us shared a brolly and both our side of body were drenched. haha...

anyway i wish him all the best in his future endeavours...take care mate !

quotes

2008-08-12T03:01:00.000-07:00

find these two quotes very meaningful, these ppl are awesome.

"my once upon a time did not end happily ever after"

and

"its better to have loved and lost then never to love at all"

thought the pain is there after every breakup, but time heals

after it heals and thinking back after few years its really to have loved n lost then never to have loved at all. memories lasts.

Lasik

2008-08-12T02:58:00.000-07:00

it has been about 3.5 months since my Lasik (www.lsc.sg)

everything is fine and good, completed my final review too.

my sister in law wendy did hers one week after me, followed by my cousin lorelle. and now today is another cousin michelle. her hubby keith will be doing his on Saturday.

I wish me and them all good and well and successful lasik surgery.

my man's woman korean drama

2008-08-12T02:57:00.000-07:00

currently watching korean drama My husband's Woman on ch 55 every saturday, very nice and realistic show.

it shows woman's pain, lover's pain, wife's pain, mother's pain. but the stupid man just cares about sex.

now watching

2008-07-20T21:17:00.000-07:00

now watching some aunty dramas namely 7pm Ivy Lee's housewife role, previously 9pm La Femme the 3 woman's role, Sat ch55 k-drama My hus' woman and ch 55 8pm the family link. all about the dilemma of being a woman, the stress and frustration, the sadness, the feelings that no one can understand.

im glad its over for me in some ways, i was single, got attached, got married, got divorced, went thru all woman stages.

have a son, so still a mother role.

Sorry I love you

2008-07-03T00:24:00.000-07:00

completed K-drama Sorry I Love You in mid-june. Wah Piang super nice show lor, cry like crazy, sweet and nice, touching, Love it !

December Fever / H.I.T

2008-05-26T23:03:00.000-07:00

completed December Fever not long ago, very drama n sad, i cry like hell. LOL

Like the songs in HIT and the cast, each n everyone so cool in their own way esp the HIT team members

Elvinology 2005~

2008-05-26T22:56:00.000-07:00

Have joined Elvinology since 2005, Liang Yi was the character that attracted me to the real Elvin.

Elvin Ng is the nicest down to earth real person i have met.

Never regret knowing him, joining his club and being his fan.

All the way Elvin, i will always support you the way you are.

Innocent steps

2008-05-26T22:55:00.001-07:00

Completed K-movie Innocent steps, LOVE the show, so nice and sweet, nice songs, nice ppl, nice steps, nice dance, addicted to it.

Thanks ocat for lending me the disc.

2nd Pixelmetrix/Anewtech Bowling Tournament

2008-05-26T22:52:00.000-07:00

Initially didnt want to play cos very pressurised by the results, most are pro, im inconsistent.

But thanks to sarah and all, i had so much fun that nite.

here is the group pic.

Collage

2008-05-26T22:50:00.000-07:00

my first collage, thanks to Mayfong who taught me how to do it

Fashion 70s - Chang Bin

2008-05-26T22:47:00.000-07:00

Have been watching lots of K-drama lately again.

Now is Fashion 70s - actually was watching cos of Chase Lee but now focus is on the other lead role Chang Bin - he is so cool, i like his abs and especially the music that is played when he is in action. His name : Chun Jung Myung

Wasted end of the show his love was unrequited. Sob sob

Korea trip Dec-07

2008-04-22T23:58:00.001-07:00

Went to Korea with my family of 11 pax to celebrate christmas.

The only pity thing is that it was not snowing :(

MY Idol - Elvin Ng

2008-04-22T23:39:00.000-07:00

he is my first real idol

i joined his fan club in 2005 after i saw him in "life of hope"

our first Elvinology gathering was at my HOUSE !

he is a very nice sweet friendly awesome person.

people

2008-04-19T22:49:00.000-07:00

just wondering
its about mums
mums that look young n dress up trendy but their mentality is so old fashion
mums that look old n auntiely or even look grandmotherly, these are those i find are the very sweet n nice open minded type instead.

so sad
i realise the woman around me are like tat
they all look so modern n want to communicate with us
but their mentality is just not right and end up offending us without knowing n thinking they are right
i read my cozzies blogs n find that all are the same.
sigh

they have destroyed our lives

36th birthday bash at DF

2008-04-19T22:42:00.000-07:00

I was so high and happy that i forgot these pix were taken, thanks to thomas n pang who reminded me. enjoy !

Lasik completed

2008-04-17T02:08:00.000-07:00

After many years in deliberation, i have finally completed my lasik surgery on 15 april 2008.

So far so good, getting used to it slowly.

Alot ask if its pain, i should say its up to individual person's pain tolerance :)

Thanks Phewen for picking me up after surgery.

angpows

2008-03-27T05:57:00.001-07:00

my birthday angpows

- godparents

- godbro/sil

- aunty anna

- uncle mike/joanna

Presents from Novell

2008-03-27T05:55:00.000-07:00

Thank you for the thoughtfulness, cool pendant and comfortable bag

3 Birthdays

2008-03-27T05:50:00.000-07:00

the 3 birthday kids

20th March - Mich

23 March - Calvin

26 March - ME

Cake fight

2008-03-26T22:37:00.001-07:00

Suckling Pig

2008-03-26T22:34:00.000-07:00

Not forgetting the surprise suckling pig at roxy hotel : compliments of jasper, lorelle, aunty anna

Chinese Birthday 19th March

2008-03-26T22:32:00.000-07:00

Had Sakae for dinner on my lunar birthday - again thank phewenna for the dinner.

Cute gift

2008-03-26T22:29:00.000-07:00

Another buddy walked me to the bustop as a birthday gift, LOL !

Necklace from Trace

2008-03-26T22:26:00.000-07:00

Thanks Trace! Very elegant.

Birthday Lunch

2008-03-26T22:22:00.000-07:00

Want to thank Novell, Trace, Mindy, May, Terence, iFah for the birthday lunch at swensens. So sweet of them.

Bear Bear from Elvin

2008-03-26T20:55:00.001-07:00

Nice boy...

Always taking care of me...

But wasted we do not have the chemistry, but still Thank you for the Bear Bear...

Let fate decide our future, LOL

Another surprise from sweet people

2008-03-26T20:53:00.001-07:00

PheWenNa went to east coast to buy my favourite pepper crabs !!

So sweet and thoughtful of them...

How can i not have a happy birthday leh... hahaha..

Bouquet from Vinc

2008-03-26T20:51:00.000-07:00

He is an old friend

Nice guy but wasted he is taken

Now we are drinking kakis...

Thank you again for the bouquet, sweet always.

Bouquet from CY

2008-03-26T20:49:00.000-07:00

this is a real surprise gift after i reach home

thanks CY again

i returned you the chocs right ? he he..

Birthday Swatch

2008-03-26T20:44:00.000-07:00

Thanks Silly gang

MMS from Jason Gor-Gor

2008-03-26T20:43:00.001-07:00

Thank you gor for remembering !

MMS from Jasper

2008-03-26T20:41:00.000-07:00

Thanks Cozzie Jasper !

Pre birthday thanks

2008-03-25T20:36:00.001-07:00

not forgetting the silly gang's birthday Swatch, i love it.

and mky's bracelet

ocat for the korean dinner, yummy!

novell for the present

finance team for the lunch today

thank you all my dears, loved ones and family for the gifts, wishes, sms, mms, food, booze and so on n so on... I am a HAPPY BIRTHDAY GIRL :D

Stone's 36th Birthday bash

2008-03-24T03:23:00.000-07:00

1) thank you Gor for the japanese dinner
2) thank you CY and Sarah for the Punggol Park dinner
3) thank you phewenna for the Sakae Lunar dinner
4) thank you Wilson for the Tiger Shuttle
5) thank you Cheryl for the Cake
6) thank you Irene for the 2nd Tiger Shuttle
7) thank you Thomas and Pang for being there
8) thank you Elvin for the BEAR
9) thank you Jasper for the card
10) thank you FAMILY for the Surprise party - pig, cake, booze, food, angpows etc etc and etc....
11) thank you in advance Ocat for the Korean dinner
12) thank you GM for the eggs and dinner
13) thank you Family and Friends for remembering and celebrating with me, for me and Standing by ME !

Term 1 school holiday

2008-03-14T00:54:00.000-07:00

I was busy on Monday so did not take leave to spend time with my babe.

Tues/Wed he went to sentosa w his dad and family

So I applied leave on thursday to spend the day with him

we slept n woke up abt 1230, so shiok cos raining cats n dogs

then we went to Seoul garden tampines for dinner, he requested it.

thereafter we watch the spiderwick at 7+ then went home

The leap year movie 2008

2008-03-02T18:26:00.000-08:00

great movie with Ivy kong.

my hans babe 9th birthday

2008-02-26T22:43:00.000-08:00

im using green because my babe likes green color

celebrated hans 9th birthday at downtown east chalet 1302 on 24 feb 08

phewenna helped with all the logistics

ocat came to surprise

i bought him a golf cake though he wanted a sniper one but not available

here are the photos

my crush when i was 14

2008-02-26T22:04:00.000-08:00

met my crush at cousin's wedding but find tat he is such a boring person

dumped him

lol

mich & keith wedding

2008-02-26T21:54:00.000-08:00

my little cousin got married 22 feb 2008

i enjoyed myself at the wedding dinner. LOL

got so high n almost drunk, toasting to friends and relatives, had so much fun

but of cos tat means the old/elder were not hapi. ha ha ha !! too bad, Gen-gap.

attach is pic of my pretty bride+me

my first blog

2008-02-10T22:55:00.001-08:00

this is my first time officially blogging at blogspot

i used to write my unofficial blogs at Windows Live Spaces.

happy to have found n created this space